Wednesday, August 13, 2008

What Do Women Really Want From Their Man

Alright, this article is not just for men, even though it is beneficial for you to know what a woman wants and expects from you. It is also important for you to know what you cannot expect from a man too soon. Women and men you both need to listen up if you want to find that perfect relationship. Here is what women want from a man and what women cannot expect from a man.

First, women want a man that is comforting, good looking, funny, and will take care of them. It is very important to understand that the one thing that women want most is to feel safe with a man. This is the most important and it comes from all the feelings of the man being secure in himself and with the relationship. Women also want honesty, great sex, and a guy that will listen to them.

Basically, women want a man that will give them everything. Some women will not admit it, but they want the night in shining armor and they want the man that will go the extra mile. The problem is that most men have been through a bad experience or two and are unwilling, at first, to go that extra mile. Men are more fragile than they want to admit. They want to be everything they can be for their woman, but after one heart break they are afraid to give themselves again.

Women, you need to understand that you cannot expect everything right off the bat. The first thing to understand is that if you are not willing to support your man while he becomes what he needs to become, then you will end up with the man you desire and he will trust that you will not leave him because you have been there from the beginning. You cannot expect a man to trust that you are going to be there for you if you don't support him.

There was once a woman in my life that told me if I got a good job, got out of debt, and became, basically the perfect man, she would be willing to date me again. Then, she told me later on that if I was able to make a half of a million dollars a year she would marry me. This is the type of woman that will never get me or any other guy if she makes comments like this. She is unwilling to support anybody and just wants the perfect man handed to her on a platter.

Women, you need to understand that you have to communicate with your man or he will not know what women want from a man and you will not be able to get what you want out of the relationship.

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