Wednesday, August 13, 2008

How Do I Know If My Husband is Cheating?

This is a question some wives have and finding the answer can sometimes be very frustrating. The good news though is that there are several ways to know whether or not your husband is cheating and this article would show you some of them.

The first way to know whether he is cheating is to try to see his financial and cell phone records and this would be very easy if you both maintain joint accounts even if you don't you can still ask for it or check it when he is not at home.

If you see that he is spending a lot of time on the phone or he is making a lot of cash withdrawals and he can't provide a convincing reason why he needs to be doing this, then this might be an indication that something is wrong.

Another good way to know is to see whether or not he is still doing the things he used to do, for instance he is still wearing his wedding ring or does he kiss you goodbye before he goes to work. Just try to think of things that he used to use to show his love for you, if he has stopped doing some of them for no reason then something must be wrong.

You can also know whether he is cheating by actually discussing with him but try not to accuse him of anything for instance you can jokingly ask him whether he is seeing somebody else and see how he reacts, if you know your husband you should be able to tell when he is lying from his body language.

Another way to do this would be to ask his closest friend and do like you already know your husband is cheating and see what his friends says. For example you can ask him how long he knew about the affair your husband was having.

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