Men and Romance - The Truth About Men and Romance

Most people think that romance is candlelit dinners, roses, champagne, and walks on the beach. These are only parts of romance and they are not completely a part of romance unless there is a deeper connection between you and your mate. Men and romance is something that women want, but do not know that not every man has romance in their blood. There is so much more to romance than just dinners, roses, and the beach. There is a spice of keeping the relationship exciting and making it fun on a daily basis. There is communication, which is not just talking. There is so much more. Men listen up because you are about to discover how to keep your woman happy when it comes to romance.

Alright, first things first, because this is incredibly important. DO NOT forget birthdays, anniversaries, mother's day, or Valentine's day. If you forget even one of these you will be spending years trying to make up for it and it will be very difficult for your woman to understand that she is important to you. If you have to write them down, set reminders on your computer or cell phone, or anything else you have to do to remember them, then do it. These come first and you better not just remember them, but make them as special as you possibly can.

Second, you need to understand that you can go spend $5,000 on a ring for your woman and not get her to feel the way you can by spending $50 on something that you put thought and effort in to. On another not you can spend absolutely nothing and give your woman a gift that will show her that you appreciate her and you love her. There are so many little things that will spice up your relationship in ways you would never imagine. You can do the laundry, vacuum the living room, cook dinner, do the dishes, or any other chores that you find meaningless. These are all very meaningful to women and you will touch their heart when you do these things unexpectedly.

On top of that you will have a better chance of getting what you want later, when the light are out and you are ready to be intimate. Your woman will know that you appreciate her and will be much more willing to show you that she appreciates you as well.

Third, you cannot take your woman for granted or just give up. This is called being in a rut. You need to always be thinking about what you can do for her. This could include leaving a little love note in her coffee cup, leaving a single rose on her pillow or in her car, or doing other sweet little things that show her that you appreciate her. These are the things that will add up to romance in her eyes. Sure a dinner by candlelight and a stroll on the beach at night are romantic, but because you do the other little things on a regular, but spontaneous basis you will have the romance there already and the walk on the beach will be even more romantic because of it.

Last, you have to understand that your woman has about 100 times the amount of emotion you have. This is why she analyzes you like crazy. You have to consistently pay attention to her, remember what she says because you are listening, and use the hints to your advantage. You can find out what a woman wants when it comes to men and romance just by listening. She will tell you and if you shut your mouth and open your ears you will find that your relationship will become one filled with romance and you will feel alive because you know how to put a smile on her face on a daily basis.